How to Stay Lovers for Life: Discover a Marriage Counselor's Tricks of the Trade, Hard Cover, 1st Printing 1997. Wolf's Guerrilla Dating Tactics turned the jungle warfare of finding a mate into an exciting, satisfying negotiation from which both sides emerged winners. Now Wolf applies the same philosophy to maintaining any long-term relationship. Replete with colorful, real-life stories of couples who made it through the trenches together, How to Stay Lovers for Life offers hundreds of quick, easy, and fun things two people can do together to keep their love alive. Hardcover: 346 pages. Thank you for looking at my post. I check my emails 1-2 times daily, but may be delayed due to health conditions, which require me to visit hospital.